She is preparing to die. The family is not going to be of any help. Try to find a way of putting her back into her comfort zone. Day trips to a child carecenter, find a school that would adopt her as a class project. where the kids would get extra credit to visit or do things with her. Community center, educational DVDs. anything to do with children. Once again try to bring her back to her comfort zone. Once you have achieved this everything else will fall in place. And then she might find the will to live and some piece of mind. K